My wife 34F has been seeing a women whom is also bi sexual and they have started a relationship with one another. She’s told me she wants me too be involved in the relationship but at the same time she’s not confirmed anything to my knowledge with this other women on weather or she would be interested in the idea of having a 3some or even having me anywhere near them while there having sex.

I’m a bit confused and feel a bit threatened that my wife won’t just ask her directly what she wants out of this her does and don’ts. I’m happy for my wife finding someone that can be her partner and friend when it comes to this side of her but I’m also a bit concerned that if she doesn’t just out right ask her sooner then later my wife’s heart will be broken and so will the other women.

Any advice? Thanks not looking to piss anyone off completely new too all this