Hey everyone. I’m looking to be a third (MFM) for a couple that I have been chatting with for a little while. This will be a first for all of us which I know has its challenges. I seem to really vibe with the wife, however, the husband seems a little quiet in our group chat. Would it be a good idea for me to reach out to him individually and ask how he’s feeling? Or should I assume they obviously have good communication and trust in each other to even be considering this in the first place? I wouldn’t want him to think that me asking is implying I’m questioning how solid their relationship is… I’d also love to hear any other advice / tips about being a third in general. Thanks!