A bit of backstory - my wife and I are both 29 and been together since high school. Early on when we were dating she revealed that she was bisexual and I took that as an opportunity to tell her that I was bicurious and had a few male crushes in the past.

Other than that one conversation, it really hasn’t come up much in our relationship haha. Every once in a while she’ll reference it, but I usually just play it off - not really denying my bicuriousity either.

Fastforward to today, she sent me a text asking if we could go see the new movie “Challengers” this weekend. While I don’t know the full plot, I’m under the impression that a bi MMF love triangle plays a pretty big part in the movie. Including one scene where the girl makes both guys make out in front of her in a threesome-like environment.

I jokingly responded to her asking to see it with something like “oh you mean the Zendaya threesome movie?” just trying to be funny. She hit me back with a “it’s about tennis”.

Now… if I know one thing about my wife, it’s that she doesn’t really care for sports haha. So I responded with “yeah okay, i know how into tennis you are” and she jokingly sent an annoyed 😒 emoji back.

A little bit later I followed up in person, asking her why she wanted to see it and she said “I don’t know, I just do!” and I kinda left it at that.

Long story short, lately our sex life has really kicked up a notch. I won’t go into details, but it’s been a lot more intense and exploratory lol.

Am I crazy, or is she trying to go see this movie to gauge my interest in maybe inviting another guy into the bedroom? Because I’ve seen a snippet of the kissing scene I mentioned above and I will 100% get turned on by it in the theater lol.

I would ask her straight-up, but I don’t really want to upset her if I’m totally wrong on this. She’s a jealous type, so if I’m wrong it could be ugly.

Years ago we talked about threesomes and we both agreed it’s something we probably wouldn’t be interested in - but in recent years I think I’ve decided that I’d be more open to it.

What do you guys think? lol