Me 37 and my wife 27 have been talking about threesomes. MFM. We are great at communicating and we don’t judge each other in what we want. We are still talking about it and we are coming up with a list of what ifs and what we want out of it. One of the hard things is finding someone to bring into our bed. A friend would be great, but I don’t want it to ruin the relationship. A stranger would be less awkward if it didn’t go that well. My main question is how to go about ensuring that he doesn’t have any stds and is clean? Do you just come out and say show me a medical document with a negative screening of stds? Any advice on MFM threesomes would help! Thank you! Also we aren’t rushing into this and we are taking our time