As the title says, how have others approached and presented the idea of adding a 3rd to the mix. Would be for both a MFF and MFM, as she enjoys adding a dildo to the mix pretending she had another cock in her mouth while I fuck her.

My wife and I have continued to further our sex life after 16 years of being together. She’s relatively vanilla, but with adding in toys and other sexy bed items, she lets her wild side out.

We’ve been fully faithful to each other, but as we’ve gotten older and further into our relationship, we’ve both be ok discussing the attractions we have to others.

We’ve never discussed really adding a 3rd to the mix, but it is something that I think both of us would welcome with the right person/situation. We both comment how hot it is when we see within movies or watching porn together, but also want to be mindful of a suggestion like this making her upset.