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Ill tell her either when she is a little bit busy, but not entirely busy, not too little either, so she wont have a moment to take it all in, but she understands a little bit of it and i still get a reaction.
The second option is after summer, when its my personal anniversary of my awakening, she she knows im not kidding and ive been this way for a year.
The third but least likely option is before 2025, so in either december or november. Thats last resort ofc if before that there isnt a right moment.
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I should start with a reason, examples: Why i made a mask, why i want to make masks (to sell), another thing i want in new friends (therian friendsπ), etc.
Otherhearted is very simple. "This animal means a lot to me, I feel a special connection to it".
And most therians don't use neo-pronouns. I mean, a real horse has normal pronouns, you know?
"Hey mum, can I borrow your facebook account? I want to look for meetups for this subculture I'm interested in. It's for people with a special connection to animals. It's called therianthropy. Of course you can google it if you want to. What animal I feel that way about? Horses! I'd be really happy if you let me do weird horse stuff at home now and then <or whatever you need>".
I think you should stop thinking about it like a confession. How about a conversation? You wouldn't need to give a big speech just to tell her that you have a favourite animal, right? Treat this as in undramatic as that, and she will probably take it well too. The more dramatic you make it, the more dramatic her response is likely to be. Chill.
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Good! One step at a time, no need to rush. π And IF you do meet people at meetups etc, remember to be careful! Meet at a public place and tell your family where you're going.