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Hello peeps
What areas of your life do you, or would you, resist your dominant having control over?
What areas of your submissives life would you not be comfortable in controlling?
For me, anything to do with my work, friendships, social life and family obligations, clothing or finances.
I think a few of those will be the same for many. But I can imagine that there are many who have clothing controlled and perhaps finances for some?
Where do you draw the line in your dynamic/power exchange ?
Soft Boundaries: Generally wouldnāt do them with some mild exceptions Wardrobe - Iām okay with a āI tell you to wear X pantiesā sort of thing where itās for fun kink reasons, but I donāt want the responsibility of picking out another personās clothes. Diet - Iāve consented to reminding a submissive to drink her water or stay on the diet of her choosing, but would not be okay setting that diet.
Hard Boundaries: Definite nos Finances, language, entertainment choices, home decoration, bathroom breaks, hygiene
Dealbreakers: If someone wants these I donāt think weāre compatible Relationships, social life, job duties, religious practices, who to vote for (yes, that came up once).
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