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Well, introvert may not be entirely accurate. But, I do struggle in most social settings. Especially those that are very loud, chaotic, and I don't know anyone.
Problem is, there's barely anything on fetlife in the way of proper classes, discussions, and munches. Most everything just seem to be sex parties, gangbangs and the like.
I have trouble meeting people because I'm going into these munches no know anyone, and other factors make it difficult to really talk to anybody there. It's not that they were unfriendly, just I'm struggling to start/make conversation.
Any advice?
tbh even munches are unappealing to my introverted self - bunch of people I don't know gathered in a room for conversation? no thank you.
How are you most comfortable getting to know people? Start there. If you make connections, awesome. If it dovetails into the kink community, equally awesome. If not, that's okay too. Also, don't discount the "realness" of online kink community. Check out our Discord for one example; I have to keep that thing on mute or it would be blowing up my phone with nonstop notifications.
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