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So I’ve experienced subspace before but never sub drop. Is there any way for subs to prepare themselves for it? What are some things that can make it better for you? I’m asking because I’m worried either my partner or me may experience it when we have sex with the dom we’ve been talking to next month. I just have a feeling it’s going to be an intense play time and want to prepare if you can even prepare for sub drop? Thanks fellow kinksters
Edit: Thanks for the advice so far! I really appreciate everyone’s input!
Drop management needs are going to vary significantly from person to person.
Good aftercare and good post-scene self care (Hydrate, eat a food, sleep, etc) can serve to mitigate drop, but as to how to overcome when it happens, I've never encountered anything resembling a one-size-fits-all solution, and what works for one submissive might very well worsen things for another.
As an example, I have known a couple submissives whose drop management strategy included quick play the morning after an intense session - either a mini, light session with their partner, or solo fantasy time. And I've also known submissives who want absolutely nothing to do with sex during a drop. Both of those reactions make perfect sense to me.
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