Hi y'all
If this isn't the best spot for this question just let me know, but i wanted to start here...

So i'm definitely new to the kink scene after being vaguely aware of it for years (and reading fiction, etc)...actually because i met someone on reddit and well it just evolved into that when He realized i had all these unexplored umm interests, lol.

So I have a Dom...we have a 24/7 dynamic, but aren't able to see each other IRL very often because of distance/work and family obligations...and we both have side fwb, that are discussed etc...(course i have to ask permission to see mine lol)....anyway....He knows i have been wanting to find a female play friend (i have been in serious relationships with women in the past)...and has suggested I join Fetlife a few times...I always hesitated because well frankly not a week goes by where i don't see someone on reddit (usually female) discussing how many umm "creepy" folks approach them ...I already have a Dom and i am very happy with our dynamic...i am only interested in finding a regular female play partner, exploring some local events and making friends or perhaps a scene partner for some kinks i am interested in exploring (with His permission)....

I finally made an account last night...but just not sure how to write the profile ("about me") yet...any tips and hints from any Fetlife members would be appreciated....especially the ladies!!

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oh also which makes it feel tricky...yes i am submissive to Him...but i have never been or ever felt the least bit umm "subby" with women...yes in the past those have been "vanilla" relationships...but very egalitarian or i was the "stronger" partner....so after browsing a bit...how would you show...yes i am submissive To THIS person, Not just anyone...lol...sorry...it just feels a bit confusing...help please. xo