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I met a human that I vibe with (yay!). He does shibari as wearables, usually for munches. Everything was so great I didn't want the night to end, so since I had the house to myself for the night, I invited him back to my place for some heavy petting and some ropework.
I posted about this date for other reasons on a different sub and someone brought up that getting tied on a first date is risky af. I agree in general, but the situation had a lot of green flags so I don't really think what I did was risky.
But what about you guys? Would you bring out your rope kit on a first date?
Based on your remark about him doing wearables and the like, I'm curious about if this was restraining or decorative ropework.
Personally I'd advise against first date restraint bondage. But then, I'd also advise against letting someone have your address on the first date, let alone allowing them inside your home.
And even though I'd generally advise against it, I've definitely let people in my home upon first meeting, so while I say it's a bad idea, my actions pretty clearly communicate it depends.
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