I originally posted this in r/BDSMcommunity and was told this would be a good community in which to post this as well.

If that’s not the case, please gently let me know and I’ll remove!

Assuming I’m good to ask away:

My Dom/Daddy and I have been in a D/s dynamic going on 5mo now. We met on Fet after he’d messaged me explaining his ex-gf briefly introduced him into the lifestyle, but they broke up before he got fully into the experience.

I’m a sub with masochistic tendencies, and I’ve been showing him the ropes and absolutely loving and praising his progress as a/my Dom.

…All of that being said, he and I communicate well and have phenomenal sexual chemistry, but there’s no way we’d work out together as a couple, which we’ve both known.

He’s now gone on a few dates with someone..and even though we both knew this was/is a possibility, I’m finding it so fucking difficult to reconcile my feelings.

I feel like I’m in permanent subdrop and it’s absolute torture.

Any advice/tips/tricks/? are welcome. 💜