I'm not sure if this post is allowed here or not. I'm sorry if it's not. So this is an appeal to everyone out there, guys and girls. Don't Ghost. It's not an enjoyable experience for the other person. And if your first instinct when you feel like not continuing for any reason is ghosting, in my opinion, it's a big signal that you're maybe not ready for bdsm. Communication is extremely important in any relationship, but especially in BDSM relationships because there's element of power exchange. So if you feel the need to stop or slow down, communicate instead of ghosting. It may help you in not missing a great opportunity, and also save frustrations from the other person. I understand sometimes you need to not go further, then you can just tell the other person that you can't continue. At least have one last conversation. Gives a closure. Just recently, I've been talking to a sweet girl since a couple of days, and I thought it was going well. I was liking the vibes. We hadn't gone to nsfw aspects yet, getting to know each other. We had moved to snapchat, and it seemed to be going on track, and she said she'll message after dinner, and after a while, I see her snapchat and reddit accounts are deleted. Now ok, maybe she had her reasons, but she could have told me that she can't continue for reasons. And I'd have understood, or at least got clarity. I think I'm speaking for almost everyone when I say, it's not fun being in receiving end of ghosting. So please, don't do that. Thank you for reading all that.