I’m relatively inexperienced in dating, but want to gain more experience and make some connections. Between bumble or hinge, does one seem more productive for actual dating? I’ve heard tinder is mostly casual dating/hook ups and I don’t want that. Something else?

I’ve been on a 3 first dates in my LIFE(4 dates total ever) as a 28 y/o woman, and want to put myself out there and date guys but not sure where to start.

I understand sex is a big part of relationships for many people, but I’m just not there nor interested in random hook ups

Given the field I’m in, meeting people organically at work/co workers is not really an option

Editing to add- I want sex too, but I don’t want it right away and I want to get to know someone a little bit first before jumping into bed. I want to date, not super casually though? Not saying I’m looking for “the one” right now but something more than a random hook up/booty call/fwb. I want some emotional connection too, not just sex?