I'm 26, NB and bisexual and haven't really done hookups, especially with guys. My wife and I are poly and she's the only person I've had extensive sexual experience with at this point. However, I kinda wanna get my back blown out by someone with no strings attached. Never had this desire before!!

But I'm scared like, how does one initiate that? How do I stay safe, beyond like... condoms and stuff? I have so much anxiety around sex and performing it and feeling comfortable but like honestly really want to try out hookups. Where do you meet? Do you just like hang out first? Do you get it on as soon as you walk in the door? How do you gracefully leave? I like sleeping in my own bed... if you hang out wtf do you talk about?? What if I wanna stop it in the middle? Idk what to do. :/

Like, I'm cute so I'm getting tons of attention on dating apps but I'm also mad autistic and the social interaction is giving me anxiety.