VENT POST: So yesterday nikalit lang ug send ug message akong bff sa work nga she's had feelings for me for quite some time already (we're both lesbians).

Then she told me it's my choice if I still want to be friends with her or not after hearing her confession.

Na shock lang ko kay she's in a long-term relationship with her partner (who is also lesbian) and they've been together for 6 years na.

I would never tolerate cheating so I told her that I'm still willing to be friends with her if okay sd cya (since I don't want things to be awkward namong duha). And she said she's happy naman that I still want to be her friend.

Cya akong best friend sa work and bisag unsa ka stressful ang pagiging nurse sa hospital, makaya ra jud basta nindot imong kauban and dili toxic. She's one of those coworkers who make every shift bearable.

But today, I saw her sa elevator at work (and she saw me sd pero gi deadma ko niya bisag nag eye contact mi), naa pa kos layo ato nga time so ni-sinyas ko nga muapil unta kog sakay, padung na ko niya pero she went ahead and rode on the elevator without me 🤡.

Then nagkita na sd mi sa laing station pag-agi nako kay pull out mn cya, wa sd ko niya tagda bisag ni "Hi" ko niya.

Like.... ookay? I guess I'll take this as a sign that she probably doesn't want to be around me because of the confession?

Or basin na-awkwardan lang cya? Huhu

Nasayangan lang ko sa among friendship. Di mn unta ko gnahan ma-awkward mi kay close mn unta mi but I respect her decision if she wants to stay away from me :(((