For a while now I've had to limit myself severely in terms of edging because at some point my lower abdomen starts aching like hell. I've tried orgasming, ruining, denying. Everything hurts no matter what. I figured it was blue balls despite the name implying that the pain would be in fact in the balls. Through research I learned that it was probably my prostate fluid building up and causing a constipated area somewhere in me.

Which made me think... What if I ruin early. Like as soon as the first sign of abdominal pressure or earlier. That way theoretically I can edge endlessly if I apply enough lube and get a rythm going. I guess I might not be the first to think about it but I always thought that ruining was done after you got blue balls to ease them.

I wonder if others are bullt like me and have that issue?