“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is for power.” —Oscar Wilde. Somewhere in the me too era men got called out for abuses over power involving sex. This lead to so many men afraid of their own sexuality. You don’t need to be. You don’t need to be afraid of your power. What I think was lost on many men was that all women wanted was to consent to it. When women give up their sex. They give up their power. It’s why sexuality is a power exchange. It’s why so many women want us to dominant and masculine. They want to exchange that power with us. The submissive holds the no. That’s their power. It’s to reject you. Respect that and they will know your power.