Welp I finally fell into the rabbit hole with all the swinger groups and sites. Now im interested to attend some; however i dont wanna do it without my gf
So heres the thing at the start of our relationship two years ago, shes asked me how i would feel about a threesome with another womanā¦
Yet i felt like it was a trapā¦ LIKE yeah every guy would love thatā¦but obviously i didnt wanna say hell yah! Instead I just decided to keep it to myself and say āI donāt knowā because i really dont know how it would be when shit actually happens lmao
So Iād like to ask those who have gone through this and got somewhere, what advice and tips do you have for me
Well first, if you have the mindset of āIā this and āIā that then you are asking for trouble.
Secondā¦communication and honestly. You are coming to Reddit before your gfā¦thatās not a great sign. And you lied to her early in your relationship instead of allowing her to make her own judgment about your actual sexual wants. Another bad sign.
You should START by first building a stronger more trusting relationship with you gf. You should easily be able to speak on things like this because if you canāt even talk about it then you shouldnāt even think about trying to convince her of going right into the action phase.
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