I am not using this to source for fun outside of Thad's as I really want to go. I've wanted to go for over 10 years but was married to a woman not interested in the life style. I am 1 year divorced (20 year marriage) and I am now mentally ready to explore excitement. I'm a shy but outgoing when comfortable, it's just that I do not want to be the weird dude in anyway. Even if I do not score any fun, I would enjoy just meeting people and getting acclimated. I've been a bull for 2 couples so it isn't about being new to having fun. It's just more of having familiar faces and an established comfort zone that will help ease anxiety. I'm not as muscular as I was, so the self confidence is also lacking with the dad bod. I have no idea what to expect and do not want to experience a negative night being a single male. Some of the bad experiences that single females have posted about makes me question the atmosphere. I can communicate effectively and am not a creep but I don't want to look at and compliment if it will offend anyone.

I'm a 38 year old male.