I (single male) have been here a few times and I enjoyed every visit. Dating and sex in the vanilla world is fun, but there are some things that you can only do at Thad’s. After the very first time I went, I made a list of stuff I want to try and get through before the year is over.

• Play in front of an audience (done!)
• Use a toy on someone in front of an audience
• Get oral while having a conversation with other people (done!)
• Give oral mid-conversation
• Play mid-conversation
• Participate in an FFM threesome (done-ish, played with one woman while making out with another)
• Participate in an MMF threesome
• Go to an afterparty with someone (done!)

I didn’t get through the list this year, but that’s what next year is for :)