Respectful and patient and open to suggestions on things you'd like to try. For example a recent experience:

Talking to a woman on this group who has a fantasy of being groped casually in a store. We agreed on the store and time. Then she sent me a photo of her outfit. A skirt with leg warmers and a hoodie. I arrived at the store within the timeframe she gave me and grabbed a cart, Putting some random items in so I didn't look out of place wandering around the store. Within a few moments I spotted her, Nervously looking around as she shopped. She didn't ask for a photo before so she had no idea what I looked like. I browsed some items near her and she gave me a nervous smile I guess to see if I would react and acknowledge we had been speaking on reddit. I gave her a polite smile back but played it off like I had no idea who she was and she went back to looking at items on the shelves, Bending over as she did. I slowly came up behind her and ran my hand up the back of her thigh as she left forward, she moaned a little and asked "Mr bug?" And I whispered in her ear "maybe" while grabbing her ass a little. For the next 30 or 40 minutes she shopped while I casually followed her teasing when I was able to. Slipping my fingers inside her as she shopped. By the end of it all she was soaking wet and panting at my touch. We went our separate ways and she whispered "lets do this again sometime"

I'm open to any questions anyone has and my inbox is always open. I try to make every experience as safe as possible and I don't want anything in return.