I'd like to encourage that before you contact the OP that you actually read what the post says. We like single guys, but dudes: This especially means you. (Although couples are guilty as well.)

I posted a couple of days ago with a very specific criteria. I got about 20 people that contacted me and only 2 of them acknowledged that criteria (Going on a cruise) and the others seemed confused as to what I was talking about when I asked if they were going on the same cruise.

It literally says in the post what/when/where yet nobody paid attention to it, thinking that "I'm just gonna see what happens" and only wasted your time.

You're not going to get what you want if you are barking up the wrong tree.

Your success rate will increase dramatically if you simply pay attention to what people are looking for and where they are looking.

Thanks for coming to my Ted talk.