The lifestyle is supposed to be a way for like minded people to explore desires and fulfill fantasies. You can be adventurous and still be discreet. Having certain qualities can lead to a better experience, communication, respect, understanding of dynamics and playing level, and compatibility. Fakes and flakes male it difficult to find quality people because of the time wasted. If you aren't willing to verify, please do not message. If you are in the fantasizing stage there are plenty of people who love to fantasizing with you. Im compatibility with couples that are into wife sharing. My experience is mostly playing with the wife while the husband watches or records. He mostly enjoy seeing her having fun and being naughty, and she must appreciate him being supportive. Certain dynamics and playing levels adds it the situation. Must have a secure relationship, I'm not trying to change anyone situation or mine, im just looking to have fun and share an enjoyable experience. No male on male. Im respectful, clean and ddf, please be the same. Im 47 straight black male. If interested let chat and see if we are compatible. Tell me yall dynamic and level of play. I travel to the area every Monday, open to an ongoing thing. I have some fun ideas for the right couple.