My wife is not that into foreplay, really. We snuggle some, but it's not the slow escalation with lots of kissing and teasing many women prefer. When it's go time, she wants to get started.

We have recently started expanding our sexual interests. She picked out a glass dildo with swirls. "realistic" ones turn her off. She calls them "severed body parts."

Anyway, we had a wonderful morning session. I spread her lips a little and pressed our dildo to her opening. There was some resistance, and I wondered if we should back off, get her more warmed up. I pushed a little more and she let out this moan - long, and low and lusty. Her moans are usually short and communicative, like "This is working, keep doing this." This moan was different. Involuntary. Drawn out. Hungggh! So sexy!

She usually likes shallow, rapid strokes that I think just sort of tug on her, rather than the in-and-out friction. This time was more in-and-out, and deeper than usual. I think she had a vaginal orgasm but she might have been working her clit, too. I was on her left side, sucking on her beautiful left breast while fucking her with our dildo. She came hard, and often has a second orgasm on tap. So it proved. Really fun!

We keep a small jar of olive oil for lube and she figured skin needs it more than glass so she lubed up a little for me and it was my turn.

In the abstract, I'd like more variety in sexual positions, but in the moment I'm always happy to climb right on top. She feels really good against my whole body.

The fucking was really, really good for me. I came pretty close to coming a couple of times, and it felt awesome the whole time. Like, the sensation only started at my dick inside her, I could feel her up and down my back and legs. I am trying to wean myself off of fantasy and just fuck in the moment, be present. But I decided needed a little more to get there.

We talked about my hotwife fantasy a little - she's strictly monogamous but willing to indulge me in fantasy talk. This is a new thing for us and we haven't found our groove exactly. When I'm getting her off, I'll use a phrase every so often to amp things up, but not a whole story. I think that would work on me. Something like, "I liked him. It was fun." whispered in my ear.

Anyway, probably because I was dehydrated and had masturbated the night before I didn't quite get there. After a good long while I tried jacking it but that was much less interesting and I realized I was good. It was good sex. It felt really good for a really long time, with sensations better than a mediocre orgasm. I wouldn't have minded getting off, but I didn't need to. No blue balls sensation.

I'm trying to be less goal oriented in general. Like, on a hike I always want to get there, and stopping to look around is slowing us down! Dumb, I know. Like I said, I'm working on it.

Later that night I was alone (my wife was babysitting our nephew for her brother). I jacked off to completion and there was a tiny bit of semen and a ho-hum orgasm. If that's all my prostrate could produce after 12 hours, the tank was definitely empty in the morning.

My wife is very pragmatic and wise, no stress or trauma and she figured I was happy, she was happy - good session. I agree.

That was the first time I wasn't able to cum, btw. Gonna hydrate today. Not for semen production - that is just a sign I need to drink more water.