if you are someone who off the bat thinks personal attraction is important please don't bother messaging me. thank you. i want open minded women to help - if you are truly open minded read on

I am a 31 year old single Latino gentleman in Los Angeles. Yes i may be young, but i have experience and am discreet. I have been with taken women from 18 to 55. Discretion is important to me as it is to you - so i take precautions seriously.

Also a warning i am a husky guy. sorry if thats a deal breaker - i also do not drive (personal reasons). Physically i am 5'8 short hair , glasses, and chubby.

A few compliments i have been given by the wives i have dated are that i was attentive to their mental needs. I love getting to know you as a person. What makes you tick - what makes you angry - what makes you giggle - what makes you smile - what drives you - what fuels you - your passions and dreams. I want to know what makes you "you".

I like getting to know a womans personality and mind. Sex? Sure its really cool and awesome i agree - but i find a womans mind much more stimulating. I enjoy that spark of passion when a woman goes on a full fledged geek out about the ocean or gardening or her favorite sporting event or a piece of art that recently intrigued her. As a side guy, i have experience and am discreet. But what i really enjoy is being able to try and fulfilling the void that you may have, whether it is physical, emotional, mental or all of the above.

You may be wondering right now , "Youre not married - you should be dating someone single. What do you care about a woman who is in the throes of her marital issues? Theyre not your problem!" And you may be right - but also so very wrong. Over the years i feel that my purpose is to help these women and try to fill the voids they are experiencing.

But why would i want to do that when there are plenty of other single women? Because my heart legitimately breaks when i see women thrown to the wayside. Abused. Neglected. It sincerely breaks me when i see them like that. I feel as a man, that they should be treated with respect, kindness, care and compassion from their partners. But so many times they have not received what they so deserve. Through my experiences I have seen too many women hurt by their supposed "beloveds" - I feel that it is my duty as a gentleman to help those facing these pains. I want to help them feel wanted again. Make them realize they still are the strong , beautiful and intelligent woman they always were. That the crap theyre put through by their spouses doesnt define who they are or what they can do. I aim to be that man who can help them realize that there is still a proud woman who should be sought after and cared for like the diamond they are.

Also, most single women throw me to the wayside after they are done with me. And its left me more hurt and pained than I'd like to admit. But helping a woman like you in her troubles? Even if its temporary? It brings me more joy to see you smile and happy again, feeling safe in a mans arms than it would be dating a single woman who would toss me after using me. I know that the taken women I have been with never left me in malice - I always saw them away with a smile because I made their lives that much better, knowing I made their lives brighter during dark times. And trust me, I have been with mentally/emotionally/physically/sexually abused women. So i know what happens sometimes behind closed doors unfortunately.....

So if you have read this far, and are intrigued even a little bit, shoot a message. see what happens and where it goes. Maybe we may be lovers. May be we just be friends. May be it just doesnt work out. Who knows and who can tell?

This is just a little about who i am and does not show the full picture. The only way to get to know me more is by shooting your shot :) I am open to online/long distance as i have done that before. I have definitely had fulfilling online relationships and would not say no to one if it was serious.