Hi everyone!

I'm a 5'2", 300lb, blue-eyed, brunette, neurodivergent, gaming-obsessed, movie-loving, creative homebody looking to develop a queer support system. It took until my late, late 20s to realize straight women aren't also interested in women (my conservative upbringing certainly didn't help), and I have a wonderful spouse who encourages me to live my truth with his blessing. We're open, but he doesn't date others and any partner I might have is mine alone (as in, I'm definitely not looking for someone to share with him, and we aren't unicorn hunting).

Some things I love:

Video games - I'm an Xbox girl. I have an embarrassing gamerscore and extensive collection of games I've never even launched. Some of my all time favorites include Fallout 3, Dragon Age: Origins, and Left 4 Dead. I've spent a crazy amount of time in Dead by Daylight (and am searching for a SWF partner, if you play too!). I'm always chasing the dopamine of that achievement unlock sound, whether that's in a simulator, RPG, indie darling, racer, or anything else that catches my eye. Lately, I've been spending a ton of time in Grounded (and could use a Player 2!).

Movies - I love horror, documentaries about anything, interesting concepts, cult classics, and I am always interested in watching somebody's favorite movie, regardless of genre or content. I'll watch any movie once. My top 5 are True Romance, Tremors, Child's Play 2, Friday the 13th Part 1, and Jackie Brown, not necessarily in that order. I still haven't seen so many of the "everybody knows this movie" movies, so tell me your favorite and let's watch it together!

Music - I'm such a genre hopper. I will get in moods where I exclusively listen to one type of music for days or weeks on end, then completely jump genres for the next several days/weeks/months. Then I throw my liked on shuffle and enjoy the personal, erratic mix it creates. Lately I've been listening to a lot of Xana, Leanna Firestone, and Cate. Before that, I was in a big Amigo the Devil, Goodnight, Texas, Steve Earle, Colter Wall era. My liked has Say Anything, The Front Bottoms, Streetlight Manifesto, Orville Peck, The Devil Makes Three, Glenn Miller, Perry Como, Pop Smoke, 00s emo, ska, 90s country, and so, so much more. I'm always down to listen to someone's playlist, especially when it jumps off a song we like in common.

Creativity - I love being creative when I have the emotional bandwidth and the time to do so. Most recently, I enjoy cross stitching, making quilts, and I'm learning to crochet. I'll try most any craft once. I've had my eyes on diamond painting, but I can't get my head around how all the little plastic actually stays glued to the paper forever, and I think I'd cry if I put in all that work and it fell apart on the wall! I also love writing, but I suffer from "new project syndrome" in all that I do, where no matter how far I am into one creative endeavor or another, the one I've not started yet is always shinier and more interesting. I could definitely use someone to help me keep on track sometimes!

I'm specifically looking to make meaningful connections with women. I'm in Arkansas, but you don't have to be. If you're interested, send me a message telling me about something that's important to you, or tell me what resonated with you about my post. Thank you so much for reading this far. I can't wait to know you!