Hello!

32 y/o male, 160 lbs, athletic / lean / muscular. I am a patient, open-minded individual who prefers to take things slow from the start. Been described by many as an "old-soul." Sort of hopelessly romantic, lol. Enjoy being outside, working out, hiking, beach, swimming, yoga, sports, gardening, reading / writing, listening to music (60s, 70s, 80s, 90s), deep conversation, etc.

Looking to connect with a woman (younger or older) who would like to join me on a new journey into the world of mindful / healing love-making. This practice would involve maintaining full presence with each other. Male orgasm along with vaginal penetration would not be the goal (although not entirely off the table); rather connecting with one another on a deeper, more satisfying level. Hoping this would evolve into a trusting, long-term relationship.

Interests include (but not limited to): setting the atmosphere, erotic massage, tantra, karezza, gentle BDSM, acting / dressing sexy, teasing, orgasm denial, deep breathing, humping, slow movements, sensual touching, cuddling, role play(?). The thought of focusing solely on pleasuring my partner and not paying much mind to what I want excites me very much. Love the feeling that comes from denying my own immediate pleasure.

No reason to rush into things, never any pressure, always respectful of their partner's requests / limits.

The woman I seek should have a similar mindset. Prefer this person to be in good physical and mental shape (someone who cares about their body and treats it with respect). Have goals, be grateful for this short experience called life! Attraction will be hard to come by if you are overweight / obese, have multiple tattoos, unnatural colored hair. Include the word "grapefruit" in your message so I know you read the whole post. No drugs.

Let's grow together physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. May we form a bond that few people ever experience; one based off of complete trust, communication, healing, and laughter. Feel the comfort around one another and never be afraid to show your vulnerabilities (let it out, tell me how you really feel). Encourage one another to explore and develop into our best versions.

If you're interested, don't be shy! This is new to both of us. Shoot me a chat / message and we can talk.

Peace!