Listen, I get that it can be a pain in the ass to follow every subs rules when posting or crossposting, but the point of this community is to allow real FL swingers to connect. In order to help weed out the constant spam and abuse, we as moderators remain strict in enforcing the sub rules.

The biggest violators (besides spammers) are still males posting or responding to other members who did not specifically include singles in their post. There seems to be a growing number of users DMing the posters in order to subvert the automod. If you are contacted by someone over DM or chat like this, please report them to the moderators so that they can be banned! Unfortunately, we have no way of knowing unless you tell us about your experience.

As always, if any harassment or inappropriate scenarios take place between you and another member, let us know so we can take action!!!

Remember, we as moderators do not get paid to maintain this community, we do so to help lifestylers freely express themselves and connect with new friends. Let's work together to continue making this community grow and be successful.

-Al