Hi all -
Me (48m) and my girlfriend (44f) both recently got out of long term marriages and found each other and we both want to get into the swinger lifestyle but it’s new for both of us.
Last night we went to Eyz and we had fun together but we were a bit intimidated about approaching people and a bit shy about asking people how to join in. So we played by ourselves and then left when we realized it might be too much too fast to start out there.
Plus there was a single guy that kept following us around almost to the point where I wanted to tell him it’s not happening and quit stalking us. He made us really uncomfortable. I made the mistake of asking him where the locker rooms were when we walked in and I guess he thought that meant if he kept following us and staring at us we’d ask him to join? But that’s not what we wanted, she’d like to find another woman.
We want to try it again but we’d like to make friends with other couples so we feel more comfortable and less like outsiders and less creeped out by single guys looking for an invite.
Are there like ways to just meet socially and friendly so we don’t feel pressured or intimidated? Somewhere we can learn the rules and etiquette and just talk to other people with our clothes on?
We have no clue where to begin but we both really want to be part of the scene. We’re just absolute beginners.
Thanks!
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