If you clearly do not fall within the scope of what the OP of a post is looking for, do not contact them or comment on their post trying to meet up or exchange photos. This means that, for example, if a post is tagged [F4F] or [M4F], then no males should be commenting on those posts or contacting the OPs through chats or DMs. This includes being outside any clearly defined limit, such as age, distance, etc.

• Commenting on a post in which you don't meet OP's clearly defined qualifications will earn you a 30-day timeout for the 1st offense and a permanent ban for a second offense.
• Contacting the OP via chat or DMs will be a permanent ban on the first offense.
• Misrepresenting yourself in order to deceive others into thinking you're somebody/something you're not will be met with a permanent ban and your account being reported to the Reddit admins.

If anyone who posts here finds themselves being contacted by people who ignored your parameters, please screenshot the messages and contact the moderators with the screenshot(s) and a link to your post.