I like to start things fast and jump into the practicalities and feasibilitiies , especially if such geographical barriers are involved. And then, we can gradually develop that emotional connect and liking for each other as we talk but yet not rush into commitment until we are sure of our decision.

I'm eventually looking for a serious long term relationship. LDR is fine as well ( i can move). I'm from india. Long distance makes the final meet even more romantic as we travel across the world to be with each other. You can learn about Indian culture from me.

i could become your lifelong soulmate , provided you put in a bit of effort to understand me. I want to know you deeply from within. Do you have the courage to talk freely and be open about who you really are ? We all have shortcomings and issues. Acceptance is important.

Some Essential Info About Me

I'm into programming and software development. Self-employed. Not quite settled or established yet, but have enough to make ends meet.

I believe children deserve a good upbringing, and I don't like compromises. I'm neither a billionaire nor an expert parent with 120 IQ who can raise a super child. The outcome might be eventually that the child gets messed up and blames me for bringing them into this miserable existence. The last thing we want is our child to complain that why we gave it birth, so rather not have any. But I'm still open minded towards the possibilities , so eventually , it depends on what you want. Your preferences about having offspring matter more. I'm not rigid. ( I'm a fencesitter in some way , but more inclined towards being childfree ). I'm not at all keen on having children, but if we mutually do decide to have, I will put my entire effort into child's bright future. But the responsibilities involved are too much, hence cons outweigh the pros.

I've never had a relationship, so you'll be my first.

Physical: 6'0" ft , i believe weight is a false indicator of health, since muscle mass / bone density also contribute to it. I am in shape, fit , i play soccer, not the gym-goer but i can run long-distance , swim lengths, cycle across the earth. I'm lean but not skinny, slightly muscular. Fair skin but not white, more like wheatish. Black hair. Cute. Overall a 6/10 in looks.

My Personality

I really like being a support and best friend to anyone, even if relationship doesn't work out between us. I believe in honesty, kindness, fidelity, privacy, empathy. I am straightforward in talks, i hate mind games, you don't need to be over-polite . Be blunt and straight with me please.

I think i'm assertive and i openly express how i feel and i want you to do the same. If you keep things bottled in, you'll be at discomfort. I want you to share your feelings & thoughts with me in a direct way and be as comfortable while talking , as if i'm your best friend.

I'm an ambivert because i feel introvert with people i don't really connect with and extrovert otherwise. My MBTI type, i'm not sure, could be ENTP.

My Interests and Hobbies

talking to people, listening to their issues and helping out, playing sports, especially those involving teamwork, i really want to collaborate eventually to solve problems the world faces. I am altruistic but self-centred too.

Hormones

i believe i have a high drive. But I feel i'll be more comfortable getting intimate once I can trust the woman and also develop some feelings for her. I think it's the emotions and love which makes it all the more fulfilling. I like giving you pleasure as much as receiving.

Who I’m Looking for

A woman anywhere on the Earth (if you can't relocate, i will ) who is of age 19 to 37 , any race. I don't believe in giving birth to more children, but if you have kids already, i can adopt them. I'm flexible about your views of god, life philosophy. religion etc and you should be flexible too. I'd prefer though that you follow a middle ground between a religious zealot and a hardcore nihilist. I do believe our existence and life has a purpose. But even if we don't align in our spiritual beliefs now, we may become like-minded as we talk and understand each other. We need to be open-minded and rational / logical.

I value love and intelligence above everything else, so even if you are depressed, don't have confidence in your beauty, have some mental health issues, are not able to get over a break up, still i'd like to atleast get to know you , be your friend and give it a chance.

I feel people who have faced failures are actually wiser, people who have experienced depression before are mature and those who have suffered loss in the past are more emotionally stronger. I'm looking for a loving heart and beautiful soul. Physical attraction is important , but not the main thing i look for.

I don't smoke, drink, take any drugs, and i'd prefer if you don't as well.If you do, I'd want you to put in an effort to abstain from that.

I also don't care about your income. You may be a college dropout , unemployed , that's alright. But i need you to be hard working and diligent.

If two lonely people get together, we can dispel away the loneliness.

Communication

I am open towards voice/video calls too. You don't need to send a pic right away but you can ask for mine. I don't ghost people, i'd let you know if i wish to discontinue talking. I'm also transparent about whoever i'm speaking to. I will never cheat on you , lead you on , keep you as a backup option , etc. You are free to explore your dating options until we become exclusive. I encourage you to talk to other people too.