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My T and I are gonna be friends after my therapy ends
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She offered me to be friends with her and I have accepted the offer happily. I have read about the concerns regarding friendship with therapists but I genuinely don't understand what they are saying, I am open to you guys changing my mind, although I will probably end up becoming friends with her because who doesn't wanna be friends with their therapist, I bet majority of us here would jump on the chance if they were offered that.

She says that a lot of her friends are her previous clients and that made me feel a bit sad because it made me realise how our friendship isn't special but still I'm gonna take what I'm getting.

She is an incredibly caring person so I am totally not worried about her taking advantage of me or something, although I don't really understand how she might do that, especially after she said that she only gives in her relationships/friendships and doesn't really take much.

I'm desperately lonely to the point where I had attempted unaliving myself so I'm not gonna let go of this opportunity to be friends with someone so special and close to me. I am kinda scared about what I am getting into because everyone says it's harmful but at this point I'm too deep into this shit, I'm really attached with her and I can't let her go!

I also felt like I was not making much progress in therapy so I broached the topic of looking for other therapists with her and I asked her if she would still be friends with me after I am healed by going to therapy but from a different therapist and heartbreakingly her response was no. The reason she gave was "if you go to a different therapist, you wouldn't be healed the way I want you to", she believes that majority of the therapists in my place are bad at their job so that was her reason for saying this.

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