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Iām blessed to āmanage or coordinateā a group of hotwives, vixens, subs, and Doms, Daddys, and Stags that all like to gather in a sexually charged atmosphere. We get together monthly or so with some smaller gatherings happening organically on the side in between as our ladies desires demand.
THE Group main parties usually have 12 or so women and around 20 /- active* guys. We try to keep the ratio between be 2 and 3 men to 1 woman. As it seems our women are insatiable and prefer more than one cock at a time. (*some husbands donāt play with others so we donāt count then as active in the ratio)
Some women are selective, some women want to take on all, it is really UP TO THE WOMAN. This is a 100% female pleasure driven party, male pleasure definitely occurs but is fully considered a secondary byproduct. This is truly HER fantasy fulfillment time, all of the men in THE Group are ready to play their role and meet HER desires as well as RESPECT her limits.
We gather in the lobby of a nice hotel for a happy hour from 7pm-8pm approximately. Then around 8pm the ladies go up to the suite and slip into something sexy and have a little girl time to prep, discuss the night ahead, and honestly bond over the fun about to be had and support each others desires. We do not have or allow catty bitchy āmean girlsā in this group, itās not tolerated, itās not well received. There are women with classic barbie doll bodies, there are women with milfy post baby bodies, there are beautiful curves and tummies, big tits and asses to little a cups and apple bottoms, porcelain fair skin, freckles to tan, (we do need some chocolate toned ladies thoughā¦ where you at AA sisters!)ā¦ it is a place where beauty comes through in personality, passion, lust, and confidence. You are simply celebrated for being there and being raw and real and unguarded and kind. Weāve had a couple negative attitude girls try and fit in but no one bites and they show themselves the door, its not the vibe hereā¦ itās all love and supportā¦ not some toxic positivity bs, but real genuine acceptance.
When ready, one of the gals will contact me and Iāll usher up all the men. We take our time to appreciate your sexiness, have a discussion about each females hopes and desires for the evening. We systematically go through each gals list of desires and limits for the night. We talk about condom preferences, handling/sexual preferences, goals for the evening, soft and hard limits, etcā¦ itās is very thorough and a safe environment.
I remind everyone that this is a place for gentlemen, that despite a lot of flesh being available consent is still requiredā¦ āNo, Stop, I need a breakā and derivatives of those terms will be honored . Green, Yellow, Red are used (though with us, Red means āstop now i need a break and Iāll tell you my needsā and not āIām done for the nightā) SAFEWORD is word used to tap you out for the night and get immediate aftercare if desired, we use that because EVERYONE knows exactly what it means. (*CNC play is not on the table at the main events, you must seek that out individually, but it can be discussed and accomplished)
Then once the āfemale desires debriefā is over, most men will start undressing and moving toward someone they connected with during the happy hour, some spouses will start with their own partner, some will sit back and let her roam free, but at this point it generally flows on its own. The parties seem to naturally last from 8:30-11:30/12ish and then most people need a break. Some folks pack up and go home, some folks go out and have a cocktail or two.
Lately the parties have been very intense and the go out for cocktails scene has been light to nonexistent if iām being honest. Most folks are worn outā¦ so, iād give it a 50/50 shot of happening.
And that is how it has been for the last 2 years! :)
Next parties are on 8/26, 9/30, 11/4, and 12/9
*for women very aroused by this scenario, but intimidated by the size of our monthly partyā¦. Please reach out. Many of our now regular group members began with a smaller more curated experience that gave them a taste of group play, created some familiar faces for when they did attend a monthly party, and is a nice way to ease into a really fun and safely organized scene. Alsoā¦ if you want a smaller setting, but wouldnāt mind a gal pal to join there are several women keen to joining a smaller setting if it still feels like a big step alone.
Ladies and Couples, reach out with questions and curiositiesā¦ happy to chat and entertain ?ās. You will receive a warm welcome and I will go over the requirements to join. There is a screening process that involves some conversation, some questions that confirm your understanding THE Group, and sti testing for Gon/Chlam/Syph/HIV for everyone and no one gets special treatmentā¦ not even people I know and trust. Itās about the right vibe and the right attitude and keeping this š„ hot and full of ā”ļøā”ļøā”ļø.
We do allow 1 voyeur couple or female per partyā¦ However we have some etiquette and behavior guidelines and expectations I can cover in conversation.
This post should be updated because they no longer allow voyeur couples. My husband and I were going to go as vouyers and then the guy he was talking to about it got really upset I only wanted to be a voyeur and started to be rude about it.
So if you are a woman, they have sex expectations for you. You are expected to participate otherwise the men there will not be happy with you.
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