So, I want to get help, I want to get rid of some particular behaviors and thoughts-- some that have endangered my life.

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However, the communities I can find in my search for help are of two kinds-- and both are rife with harmful views and advice.

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The first are sissy communities, y'all are likely familiar with how people there often try to "push your head back under the water" as I refer to it. They have accepted their fetish and often addiction to it as fate, and want to shove others down the same rabbit hole.

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Going to them for help is, clearly, a bad idea.

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Then you have communities like this subreddit here-- which are built for helping people like me! You reject the drowning sissies tend to engage in! Fantastic! But-- I am non-binary-- and I've seen rule 3. Due to this and a few things I will leave unsaid, I know I am not welcome here.

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I don't mean to intrude, I just don't know where I *can* go for help at this point. I'd just like some help being rerouted to somewhere between the two extremes I've found out there. I'll be out of your hair shortly.