Hi All,

Me (31) and my GF (29) have been together for almost a year. I was her first in penetrative sex but I do have alot of body count.

Hotwifing has been my fetish or kink even with my previous relationship. And now it did resurfaced. My GF talked about it. She was hesitant at first but later agreed on the idea since her priority is to fulfill my fantasy over the physical pleasure that she can get.

I told her to go on Dating apps to match a guy, and she did. Now she’s telling me she’s ready to meet the guy.

However, it was me now that’s having a cold feet. Hence, posting here for advice. I always say that if she leave me for any reason, then so be it. But at the same time, I have lots of worries. i.e she might get addicted to it, might do without my consent or knowing or fall for someone else.

At the moment we’re living away from each other coz I’m based somewhere else but will come home when done. So this adds to my worries since there will be no “reclamation” afterwards.

My friends (girls) has different opinion. Some says they’re against it. Someone told me it’s my fetish so I don’t need to seek for an approval to anybody but myself.

Please can you shed some light. Thank you.