IMPORTANT INFO:
- newly out of a long term relationship, exploring ethical non-monogamy / polyamory and I would like to keep it that way. Open to dates, regular ongoing things, friends, FWB, hookups, one night stands, and possibly couples.
- I'd love to meet some people discreetly who could be more interested in me as a person, with an emphasis on the friends / relationship part.
- I have a car and am open to getting a private room for meetups.
- I'm posting on reddit because I don't want my friends to see me on dating apps and would really like to emphasize the discretion part in getting to know each other.
ABOUT ME:
♂️ Straight Cis, sorta demi, sorta Sapiosexual
👁️ Chinito, but gets mistaken for Japanese or Korean; has been called attractive
⚖️ BMI 22-23, not fat nor a twig
🗣️ values communication, intimacy, kindness and intelligence
✅ very much into consent
🌏 grew up between the PH and abroad; still in Cebu until late Aug
🗨️ speaks primarily English, fluent in Bisaya, currently learning Spanish
👫 non-monogamous/polyamorous
⚕️ clean, STD tested and vaccinated
💯 fair experience in bed, have heard good reviews, SWITCH, willing to discuss kinks privately
ABOUT YOU (LOOKING FOR):
♀️ straight/queer women (anyone AFAB)
👁️ any height, skin color, or ethnicity; I've dated all kinds of women in the past
⚖️ preferably BMI 24 and below
🗣️ discreet, respectful, communicative, open to discuss expectations and boundaries, decent EQ (emotional intelligence)
🗨️ can carry a decent conversation, good company
👫 can be partnered, married, or single as long as everything is consensual and ethical. (Singles preferred)
⚕️ clean and tested
🪒 decently clean in grooming
WHEN MESSAGING:
I understand that it's easy to find guys, but I know my worth here. Please don't message me if:
❌ you're a dry texter and expect me to carry our convos.
❌ you don't want to be clear and concise about your intentions with me, and just wanna pass time
❌ You want me to send you my photo first
If you wanna reach out:
✅ Please message me first and mention what you're looking for instead of just "Hi / Hello"
✅ Maybe share some music, movies and hobbies you're into. We might have some in common 😊
This post will be ongoing unless changed or deleted. So if the post is up, I am open still to messages.
Looking forward to hearing from you ✌️
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- 1 year ago
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