Hi so I live in Austin and wow is there a strong naughty community here 😂 but I have run into a problem recently. So my coworker (49F) and I recently discovered that we both like to play a lot… and are now very honest with each other about our kinks and experiences. Her 50th birthday is coming up and to celebrate she is organizing a gangbang and a full on swingers/sex party afterwards. She invited me! So awesome - I was so excited! Here’s the problem. She keeps hinting at how she can’t wait to play with ME specifically. She’s been joking a lot about my tits and my young pussy and saying how I’ll be the youngest one there and I’ll probably get gangbanged and make her jealous so I’ll “owe” her. Ummm… I’m not attracted to her at all and don’t plan on playing with her!! How do I make this clear nicely??? I don’t want to get uninvited from the party! But I definitely don’t want her to think that I’ll be playing with her at all. She is almost 30 years older than me and def not my type. How do I stay kind, direct, and also stay invited to the party?? 😂 😭