I'm coming to the realization that this group is pretty much dead. I thought about giving up on it, but I really want to create a space where Swingers that want to be friends with benefits can find others near us. I don't want our only options to just be quick hookups, but to have lasting friendships and no drama.

So here's what I'm going to do instead.

1- Relaxing the no-nudity policy... I'm just going to change it to no unsolicited dick pics. Dick's can be in a photo, but let's not just all share close-ups of our dicks.

1. Post more frequently. While it will still be about scheduling meetups, perhaps some open discussions of fantasies and desires will stir up some friendly conversations.

2. I might build in some awards or user flair, what do y'all think?

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That said, I'll go first...

Let's get dirty! Let's talk desires/fantasies.

I'm into;

Ropes - this doesn't always have to be bondage, something like a hishi karada is just sexy, and a hip harness can give you something to grab on to so you can really put your back into it.

Gags - sometimes words get in the way. Gags look super sexy, and a drooling moaning girl who cannot speak is about as sexy as sexy gets. That said, it's important to discuss boundaries and safety before this.

Toys - we like the Doxy (basically a handheld earthquake), the magic wand, and this little bullet by Femme Fun with a turbo button (when we use it we have to put towels down or change the damn sheets).

Forced Orgasms - When you put all of these things together you have a bound, gagged woman, with a powerful toy in all the right places. It's so hot watching my Wife writhing and squirming leading up to, and during her orgasm. Watching her legs shaking, is such an erotic sight, I cannot even begin to describe the effect it has on me.

Post-Orgasm Torture - sounds evil, and I suppose if you're not into it, it kind of is. This is something you have to discuss with your partner in advance. We all know that right after an orgasm we are all very sensitive. Maintaining contact with the toy, especially a powerful one, can be overwhelming pleasure bordering on pain. My Wife sometimes lets me do this for a little while, and it's amazing.

Cum - I like cumming in my Wife's mouth, but I don't want her to swallow it. I want her to drool it slowly, or keep it in her mouth for a while. Also, I like cumming on her pussy and her ass. It's just sexy to me.

Fantasies;

- I'd like to watch my Wife fuck another girl with a strap-on.

- I'd like to watch my Wife be fucked by another girl with a strap-on

- I'd like to watch my Wife and another woman do a cum-kiss or do cum cleanup.

- I'd like to tag team my Wife with another man, and have us BOTH cum on her... the more cum the better. If this were two couples the ensuing cum cleanup or cum-kiss would be glorious. (P.S. the last time I posted this my inbox was overwhelmed with dick pics and volunteers... my Wife isn't ready for a bull yet, so please no bull's hit me in my DMs)

- Less sexual, but I'd like to tie two women, or other women and do a photo shoot. No sex would have to be involved, and I would naturally delete any photos that someone wanted deleted and only post with permission.

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I'll let my Wife speak for herself on here, please share your fantasies and desires and/or feel free to comment on this post.

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Prost!