Hello MF/FF/ and (solo playing) F of central texas!
My wife and I have recently opened our marriage. We have been on this journey since the last week of August . I started exploring the.... nuts/bolts of being open in late June/early July. A fascinating , scary and wonderful journey of self and shared discovery over the past six weeks or so.
It has worked out so well for her, for myself and for us jointly. It has completely enhanced our communication, our sex life our deep care/appreciation/desire/understanding for/of each other. We are even more deeply in love than we were before we fully opened our marriage. If you are thinking about opening up your relationship to seek even higher levels of compatibility/closeness/love/romance, do it!
In many of those situations, it's just cover for the man wanting to sleep with other women. Not in our case. I took care of her first. We have built out quite a nice rotation of lovely male partners for my wife to enjoy. She now has her pick of vetted, reliable, caring, respectful single men every night of the week and has some regulars. She is now starting to date some absolutely lovely gentlemen and having the time of her life.
Now she would like to date couples and solo females and has asked me to manage that process on her behalf, just as I did with the single males (males: we still have very few single male slots open in the schedule, impress me with your first DM or you'll be blocked).
Some requirements of ours for anyone seeking her as a unicorn:
1) Please be married or in an incredibly long term , secure, stable relationship. We will jointly vet you, and she will have a second meeting with you as a couple to vet you solo. Her/I will discuss and then she will inform you either way. She is seeking long term/ongoing and needs to have fun and stability. She doesn't want drama. She will bounce at the first sign of drama.
2) Please understand she is not exclusive with you. She will do her best to give everyone equal time across the rotation.
3) Please be well established. Please own a home or at least live without room-mates. Please live in RoundRock/Pflugerville/Hutto area or be comfortable traveling to Pflugerville for dates. If you want her to travel to you, you must provide an Uber each direction .
4) Please treat her with the utmost respect and love. She is going to be your girlfriend, treat her well.
5) Please understand that FFM sex is not like in porn. It requires careful planning, clear communication and it's lots of work for everyone to feel included and have a wonderful time.
6) Please have good grammar/spelling/communication/time management skills. She has a very packed schedule which I manage for her. If you make a date, stick to it. After one cancellation , you will be dropped from the rotation. If she's made a slot for you, she's had to remove a slot from someone else (or reduce time she can spend with me)
7) Please do not have kids. Please do not have overly complicated lives. This is impactful to point #7..Dogs are wonderful though! She loves dogs :) (No cats please)
8) Please respect my time. Please send me a long reddit mail or chat that addresses these points succinctly. Show us you can put the effort in. This is the mythical "solo" female. Yes she is married, no I am not going to be involved in the play. Chances are, I am not attracted to the female enough to want to have intercourse. No offense intended to all the lovely beautiful ladies. I have deeply specific things I want/need and I have my own female play partners. Do not even ask for a double unicorn situation. Do not be greedy.
For solo female applicants:
All of the above applies.
Well off, alpha in business/sub in bed solo females very strongly preferred. She loves to be taken shopping, on nice day trips etc. Do you want to spoil a beautiful woman? She would love to have you apply for a spot!