I would consider us an unexperienced 30's hotwife couple. We love the fantasy, but only did it once.

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Several years ago, my wife and I talked about her hooking up with a long-time (10 years) single friend. He was attractive, they've flirted for years, and we both agreed it would be hot for them to hookup.

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He was not in the lifestyle, but not a prude, not religious, very open and adventurous - so I spoke to him about it one on one, and he laughed but said he would be down. I told him whatever happens happens. And I'm cool with it.

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Over the next several weeks, they hooked up several times, with me in the room. It was super hot, and my wife and I had the best sex afterwards - we were both so turned on. When we would hang out, everything was normal - didn't talk about, just normal friends.

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Then several months went by and we really didn't talk to him much. Then suddenly he blocked us on the phone and facebook. It was super weird - he never gave a reason, didn't say it was because of the swinging, or anything else. I'm guessing this was the reason, but unfortunately I'll never know.

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Do you think this was the cause?