I have been given some advice which I thought I’d never do but lately I feel differently.
I was about to hook up with a female who was a friend of mine and a guy she really wanted. He was in his 40’s and she was 49. This guy asked me what my age was mind you, after we were all naked and in bed. I told him I was 62, his response was that we were going to make this all about the other woman right? It felt like a kick in the gut but I did want to be with Beth but I thought she and I would both be with him too. I’m totally not embarrassed about my age and I look great for my age (now I’m 64) but that incident hurt my feelings. Two female friends have told me to lower our ages on a site because we both look younger than we are. On most cases no one asks how old we are so is this a bad idea or not? Sometimes if a man asks me how old I am I say, how old do you want me to be? Is there an age that’s too old to play with, especially if you are 40ish?