So we are new to the lifestyle and have been loving meeting new couples online and flirting and all that comes with it. So here’s my question, what is the etiquette around mentioning other couples (no names or specifics). We currently have three couples that we are actively talking to and would give us each a different experience. We haven’t been physical with anyone since we live geographically farther away than we would like, but have plans to meet with one couple soon and are over the moon excited.

I am not naive enough to think that they are only talking to us, as we are also talking to more than one couple. They all know that we are new and haven’t been physical yet, but is it taboo to bring up when we have? I’m not going to talk about anything private or personal, but what is the kiss and tell “policy”? Does a group of non-monogamous adults have etiquette around acting monogamous with another couple? I don’t want to mess this up with any of them.