Morning everyone! We’ve been married 11 years both of us 29. Both of us still new to the LS and trying to dip our toes. My wife for the 2nd time now has told me she’s ok with me having a fuck buddy. She just wants to know who and doesn’t want me to have a Emotional connection with them just straight fucking. I made the comment that the only way I can think of finding a FB is on a app. She says if I’m on a app it’s a no go cause I’m looking for a emotional connection. I told her I like the idea, excites me but I’m not going through with it because it sounds like a trap. And id be much more comfortable with her finding her for me. Or us carrying on in trying to find the right unicorn or couple to play with.
You need to stop treating your marriage as a guessing game and sit down and properly talk about it.
Why she wants you to have a FB why you want to have one.
Did you bring it up first or did she?
Does she want to watch you fuck someone else? Or is she just scared of loosing you because she can’t complete with your sex drive?
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Well that’s your answer, she wants a threesome not you having your own fun.
A single guy is going to struggle finding a girl to play with VS a couple looking for a girl.