So I am married.. and bisexual. I'd love to join a couple as a Unicorn..but want my husband present.. no participation from him, I'm just not into it if he isn't at least in the room. It has been EXTREMELY hard to find a couple that is okay with this! I was talking to a male half of a couple the other day.

I asked if my husband could be present, he said no...then OFFERED ME MONEY "for my time". I said absolutely not, I'm not an escort. And he said "and we aren't looking for couples" Okay? You said no and that should have been the end of it...but then to offer me money to come solo is gross.

I thought this would be easy to find...absolutely isn't. We even play with a married woman who's husband just watches. I thought more couples would be okay with this but they want me to come alone and I'm just not comfortable with that. Bit of a rant lol I just don't understand it.

Edit: People telling me I'm not a Unicorn lol okay fine.. I've met quite a few wives who "play unicorn" for other couples so that's why I used it. I want to "play unicorn" and not have my husband involved..but I don't feel comfortable going to someone's home or a hotel solo..that's all.

Edit: To the American couples shooting their shot in my DMs, I'm Canadian 🙃😉