Ok, first time posting here, but my wife and I have a question, and we'd like some input. This isn't our first time around the sun, but we haven't run into this before.

We were approached by a couple through one of our dating apps. Chat commenced, and we seemed to hit it off. Wife is attracted to them, and that's what's most important for us. Frankly, I honestly can't tell with men, and my wife and I have similar tastes in women. Anyway, we exchanged pics and set up a date. The day of the date, they ghosted us, and their profile had been deleted. Fast forward about a month, and they IM us saying they were very sorry but they'd had an unexpected death in the family. They were called away suddenly. Their profile name was different from before, but very similar. We agreed to stay in touch and try to get together. There were a few chats but then they were gone again. Now, they've reappeared with a completely new profile name, nothing even close to the previous two, and approached us about meeting up. All of this has transpired over the last 6 months, or so. They otherwise seem pretty "normal" (whatever that means).

With three different profiles in the last 6 months, and the ghosting, we feel like this should all add up to a red flag. We would love to get some thoughts from the redditors on this sub. Should this be a red flag?