We've always gone to swinging parties or small resorts. We started discussing about going to a hotel takeover on NYE.

My husband doesn't want to go and I'm so down lol Wrle need advice on what to expect please!

My husband's concerns are these:

1) Lighting - he pictures a regular old hotel with bright lights everywhere. 2) Dress code - When there's a theme do we walk all around our hotel with our outfits on? Just like a regular club? (Flyer says hotel is closed to the public) Also, do we have to dress in theme? 3)Environment - are plays rooms only in individual hotel rooms? Do they have sex in certain play rooms? The lobby? 4) Security - I like to feel safe so this is my personal question. How is the security at places like this?

Thanks for answering all our questions! We'd like to book ASAP!