Finally had my first experience this weekend. We've been talking online for a few weeks and she was interested on going to dinner and then back to the hotel. All of that went fine and good and I'd definitely do it again. However there's a few opinions I'd like to get if possible:

- Is hygiene a deal breaker for some? She was very hygienic head to toe, other than her breath. It was so bad I coughed at one point because of it and just played it off. I'd never say something because I'm not the type to make someone feel self conscious so I just stuck it out, but it makes the idea of a 2nd visit with that person debatable because kissing is a big portion of it to me.

- Married individuals like myself: is your first time a bit more challenging to get into it? I think 10 years into my marriage, I get all sorts of affection and I'm so accustomed to getting it, so spending the night with someone new, and it being different in that aspect, I had to kind of take it slower because of that.

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With all of that being said I want to clarify that she was kind, and authentic and the experience wasn't bad at all. No regrets or anything like that and my wife loved when I came back to share the experience and her and I had great sex that night. Nothing against the woman and I hope to find more people as easygoing as she was to speak to. But more or less just looking for advice on if there's a bit of an adjustment period to getting a different kind of feeling from other people, or if you think I'm just being annoying that's ok too haha