This is an offshoot of another thread on here. Everyone is entitled to their preferences. You like what you like and thatās no one elseās business. However, when you broadcast on a profile what you donāt like, in an attempt to filter your DMs as in (I donāt like ${X} type of person), youāre setting yourself up to be judged on your preferences. When you bring race into the equation, good luck, people donāt tend to be charitable about interpreting your intentions.
The solution? Simple. Donāt like black men? Donāt message them. If they message you, just say āno thanksā. You could just not respond at all. Hell, you could even block them. No explanation necessary. Seems like it would be a lot easier than putting āNO BLACK MENā on your profile and then defending yourself against accusations of racism.
Is it racist? Could be. I donāt know. I canāt read your mind, I can read that profile though and it looks kinda racist. Itās unlikely that people will reach out for clarification. They will just assume you are racist and now youāre the one getting filtered out. Could have been avoided. Less is more. You donāt need to tell everyone everything.
Edit:
On second thought, disregard the above. Weāre all better off when you show people who you really are.
100% agree! We skip those profiles either way, if they say no black men or only BBC and we absolutely assume those people are racist.
100%, broadcasting your filter on race is weird
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