Wife and I (both late-30s) started a couple of years before everything got locked down and only recently started to get back out to the clubs and dabble online. Totally different world here. Totally. Won't beat that dead horse but we're curious if you've seen this as well where you're at.

For us tho, one of the things about my wife and I that we've since discovered is the quality of the personalities is more important to us than it ever was. Before it was kinda a "you're hot, we're hot, let's fuck" - not completely like that but there were times it was def like that and especially in the club. Online we were always pickier but now we totally find ourselves cutting couples out that we don't immediately click with.